The Broken Road Project Podcast

After a massive stroke affected the entire right side of his body, Charlie Webber was told he might never walk normally, speak normally, or play guitar again. For a lifelong musician, the prognosis reached into the center of his identity.
In Season 2, Episode 17 of The Broken Road Project Podcast, host Trent Peterson sits down with Charles “Charlie” Webber—a retired Air Force Chief Master Sergeant, guitarist, author, and stroke warrior—to talk about faith, family, individualized therapy, and rebuilding one chord at a time.
Charlie could not physically or emotionally touch a guitar for a full year. Then he asked his wife, Lisa, to bring him a small guitar and began again with a few basic chords. That first attempt became his “declaration of independence” and grew into more than 240 weeks of documenting recovery for other stroke warriors.
Charlie shares the isolation of suffering a stroke during COVID-era visitor restrictions, the moment seeing Lisa again felt like a burst of light, the therapists who learned what mattered to him, and the church that held his seat in the praise band for two years while believing he would return.
His recovery journey also became the book Strumming for Life: Riffs of Resilience, a Stroke Warrior’s Fight Back Through Music! Built from years of journaling and weekly videos, the book encourages survivors to hold on to faith, hope, support, and the willingness to learn a new way forward.
In this episode:• Charlie’s life of military service and music before stroke• Touring with the Air Force’s Tops in Blue• The day the stroke changed everything• Isolation, Lisa’s support, and the emotional side of recovery• Grieving old abilities without surrendering hope• Picking up the guitar after one full year• Therapy designed around Charlie’s musical goals• Returning to the church praise band• More than 240 weeks of documenting recovery• How journaling became Strumming for Life• Charlie’s message to survivors and caregivers
Charlie says he no longer plays simply to impress—he plays to express. His story reminds us that a difficult prognosis does not get the final word.
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This episode shares personal recovery experiences for education and encouragement. It is not medical advice. Please consult qualified healthcare professionals about individual medical needs.

Cisco Gonzalez was 44 when an ischemic stroke changed life for his entire family.
In S2E16 of The Broken Road Project Podcast, Cisco and his wife, Melissa Gonzalez, share both sides of a recovery story—the survivor trying to understand what happened and the caregiver suddenly forced to make decisions, advocate, protect her family, and keep moving forward.
Cisco remembers very little of the weeks that followed his stroke. Melissa remembers almost all of it.
Their journey included frightening symptoms, uncertainty, an ICU fall, a serious brain bleed, an emergency craniotomy, weeks of hospitalization, memory loss, vision and balance problems, and the long process of relearning things most of us never think twice about.
But this conversation isn't only about what they lost.
Cisco and Melissa talk honestly about rehabilitation, marriage, family, prayer, caregiver isolation, finding the right support, and how their faith grew through one of the hardest seasons of their lives.
In this episode:
• Cisco's life before his stroke at 44• The first symptoms Melissa noticed• The survivor and caregiver perspectives of the same medical crisis• Why having an advocate matters• Cisco's ICU complications and emergency craniotomy• Memory loss, vision problems, balance, and rehabilitation• The small victories that become enormous during recovery• Why recovery should never become a competition• The emotional weight carried by caregivers• Faith when the future is uncertain• How their marriage, family, and purpose changed• Why Cisco and Melissa are now helping further the mission of the Broken Road Project
One of Cisco's most important messages to other survivors is simple: don't compare your recovery to someone else's. Every survivor's road is different. Let someone else's progress inspire you—not define you.
And from Melissa comes an equally important reminder for caregivers: there are parts of this road that can feel incredibly lonely. Community matters. Support matters. Faith matters.
No survivor or caregiver should have to walk the broken road alone.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 – Meet Cisco & Melissa Gonzalez04:36 – Life Before the Stroke08:04 – Cisco's Last Memories Before the Stroke09:05 – Melissa Remembers the Morning Everything Changed13:05 – When the Initial Answers Didn't Fit19:19 – Learning Cisco Had a Stroke21:40 – A Family Suddenly Facing the ICU28:43 – Cognitive Changes and a Rapid Decline31:32 – The Fall That Changed the Recovery36:47 – Head Pain and a Growing Crisis40:52 – Unresponsive and Facing Emergency Surgery42:53 – Another Medical Crisis47:00 – Faith When Cisco's Life Was in the Balance49:32 – The Emergency Craniotomy51:46 – Fighting to Come Off the Ventilator56:57 – The Swallow Test and Another Answered Prayer1:02:54 – Leaving ICU and Beginning the Next Stage1:09:37 – Relearning How to Move1:18:26 – Intensive Neuro Rehabilitation1:21:19 – Recovery Doesn't End at a “Plateau”1:24:16 – How Their Faith Changed1:28:19 – Turning Their Experience Into Purpose1:30:47 – Cisco's Message to Stroke Survivors1:33:31 – Melissa's Message to Caregivers1:37:42 – You Are Not Alone
This episode shares personal experiences and perspectives and is not intended as medical advice.
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After 32 years in nursing, Necole McDaniel found herself on the patient side of healthcare.
In Season 2, Episode 15, Necole McDaniel, BSN, RN, TCRN, CEN, joins Trent Peterson for a candid conversation about medical gaslighting, chronic illness, patient advocacy, nursing burnout, fear, family, community, and the choice to live beyond a diagnosis.
Necole shares how being a patient changed the way she sees bedside care; why invisible illness and a polished appearance can delay recognition; and how documenting symptoms, building a medical binder, bringing support to appointments, and asking clear questions can help patients participate more fully in their care.
She also speaks openly about her lived experience with hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, mast cell activation syndrome, gastroparesis, total parenteral nutrition, recurrent anaphylaxis, chronic pain, and the emotional weight of an uncertain future.
Through it all, Necole returns to a central truth: illness may change parts of your life, but it does not get to become your whole identity.
IN THIS EPISODE:
• What burnout can look like in nursing and caregiving• What being a patient taught a career nurse• Medical gaslighting, invisible illness, and delayed answers• Practical ways to organize medical records and prepare for appointments• Living with risk without allowing fear to control your life• Why recovery plateaus can be places to rest—not places to stop• The importance of caregiver support, community, dignity, and being seen• Why an invitation still matters, even when someone cannot attend• Holding on to your identity beyond illness
Necole appears in her personal capacity and speaks only for herself.
This podcast is provided for education and personal storytelling only. It is not medical advice. Speak with a qualified healthcare professional about your own symptoms, diagnosis, treatment, medications, or care decisions.
CONTENT NOTE:This episode includes discussion of severe illness, anaphylaxis, chronic pain, hospitalization, malnutrition, medical trauma, workplace violence, infant loss, and a brief account of emotional crisis and asking for help.
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What does stroke recovery look like through the eyes of a child and spouse? 🧠💙
In “More Time,” Trent Peterson sits down with his wife, Amber, and their son, River, for an honest family conversation about stroke recovery, caregiving, faith, and the lessons they have learned together.
River was six, turning seven, when Trent’s stroke suddenly changed their family’s life. Now, two years later, he shares what he remembers about the hospital, watching his dad relearn everyday abilities, and helping other survivors through the Broken Road Project.
In this episode:
🧠 River shares a child’s view of stroke🏥 The family remembers the hospital and rehabilitation journey💙 Amber discusses caregiving, patience, and grace🙏 The Petersons explain how faith carried their family🤝 River shares his growing role in helping other survivors⏳ Trent reflects on learning that his family needed more time—not more things
Recovery affects the entire family. It can be difficult, unpredictable, and lifelong—but hope, community, and meaningful progress remain possible.
If this conversation could help another survivor, caregiver, spouse, or child, please share it with them. 💙
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In this episode of The Broken Road Project, Trent Peterson sits down with Shayne DeMarce, creator of the UpStroke Podcast, filmmaker, biker, husband, father, and stroke survivor.
Shayne shares the story of the motorcycle accident that led to his stroke, the fight to survive, the long road through rehabilitation, and the emotional reality of rebuilding life after trauma. He talks openly about faith, family, disability, depression, creativity, and the second chance he is choosing to live with purpose.
This episode is for stroke survivors, caregivers, families, and anyone who needs a reminder that life after trauma can still hold meaning, connection, and hope.
Follow Shayne and the UpStroke Podcast:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UpstrokePodcastiHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1333-upstroke-podcast-channel-303974999/Website: https://www.upstrokemedia.com/
 
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In this powerful Aphasia Awareness Month episode of The Broken Road Podcast, Trent sits down with Janu Orrick and Demetrius Moreno to talk about life after stroke, aphasia, caregiving, recovery, and the power of being truly heard. Just before his 55th birthday, Demetrius suffered a massive stroke. Doctors told him he would likely never walk or talk again and that a care home may be his future. But Demetrius and his longtime friend and care partner, Janu, refused to accept that prognosis. More than three years later, Demetrius continues to work hard every day through exercise, speech practice, and one-on-one conversation. Together, they share the reality of expressive aphasia, apraxia, isolation, caregiver exhaustion, financial stress, and the slow, steady work of rebuilding a life after brain injury. Their journey also inspired Janu to create AphasiaPals, a non-clinical conversation support service designed to help people with aphasia practice communication, feel connected, and be reminded that they are still themselves. This conversation is about more than recovery. It is about patience, purpose, advocacy, faith, laughter, and learning how to listen with your heart. Whether you are a stroke survivor, brain injury survivor, caregiver, care partner, therapist, family member, or someone learning about aphasia for the first time, this episode is a reminder that no one should have to walk the broken road alone. Topics discussed: Aphasia awareness, stroke recovery, expressive aphasia, apraxia, caregiving after stroke, caregiver burnout, communication support, isolation after brain injury, AphasiaPals, and finding purpose after trauma. Learn more about The Broken Road Project: https://www.thebrokenroad.org/ https://www.carecredit.com/ Subscribe for more conversations about stroke recovery, brain injury, faith, resilience, and life on the broken road. 00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Demetrius’ miraculous recovery 02:22 - The importance of positivity in stroke rehabilitation 05:08 - Talking about communication needs and aphasia awareness 09:02 - The power of holding space and intentional listening 13:52 - Inspiration from mentor groups and community support 17:13 - Explaining aphasia in simple terms 21:28 - The value of foundational, neuro-based therapy approaches 28:47 - Holistic approaches to health, including chiropractic care 36:51 - Caregivers’ mental health and the importance of self-care 44:39 - Financial strategies and managing the burden of rehab costs 55:33 - Shifting perspectives and fostering hope 58:01 - A final message of resilience and asking, “How does it get better?” #AphasiaAwareness #AphasiaAwarenessMonth #StrokeRecovery #Aphasia #Apraxia #CaregiverSupport #BrainInjuryRecovery #StrokeSurvivor #StrokeThriver #TheBrokenRoadProjectPodcast #BrokenRoadProject #AphasiaPals

In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Phillip Oxendine, also known as Aphasia Phil, to talk about life after stroke, living with aphasia, and finding a new voice through recovery, community, and advocacy.
Phil shares his personal journey of rebuilding communication, staying motivated through the hard days, and using his story to encourage other stroke survivors, people with aphasia, caregivers, and families. This conversation is a reminder that aphasia does not mean someone has lost their intelligence, their purpose, or their voice.
We also discuss the importance of support systems, speech therapy, self-advocacy, and organizations like Bryn Mawr Rehab that help survivors continue moving forward.
Connect with Aphasia Phil:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AphasiaPApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/aphasia-phil/id1805271142National Aphasia Association Resource Page: https://aphasia.org/resource/aphasia-phil/Email: justphil215@gmail.com
Remember: It’s your voice. Use it.
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This is the full conversation and final release in our Faith After Stroke series on The Broken Road Podcast. In this episode, we bring together the full story of faith, stroke recovery, suffering, healing, and purpose. Stroke recovery is not only physical — it is emotional, spiritual, and deeply personal. This conversation explores what it means to keep trusting God when life changes suddenly and the road ahead looks nothing like what you expected. We talk about faith in suffering, the questions that come after a life-changing health crisis, and how God can still bring purpose from pain. This episode is personal to me, and my hope is that it encourages stroke survivors, caregivers, families, and anyone walking through a difficult season. Sometimes the broken road is where faith becomes real. Subscribe to The Broken Road Project Podcast for more conversations about faith, recovery, purpose, and the stories God writes through unexpected roads. Topics covered: Faith after stroke Stroke recovery and purpose Christian encouragement Healing after hardship Trusting God in suffering Purpose after pain Stroke survivor testimony Faith and recovery journey
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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Trent Peterson, Shayne DeMarce, and Oral O continue their honest discussion about faith, stroke recovery, surrender, miracles, and purpose after suffering. Part 1 asked the painful question: “Why me?” Part 2 asks something deeper: “What if God can use even this?” This episode moves into the heart of recovery — not just physical recovery, but spiritual recovery. The conversation explores what it means to surrender control, how suffering can shape character, how stroke changed their relationships with God and family, and why purpose can still be found after life is interrupted. Trent shares how his stroke became a reset in his faith and purpose. Oral speaks about peace as one of the greatest miracles of his recovery. Shayne opens up about the difference between fighting for control and learning to surrender. Together, they talk about masculinity, humility, family, miracles, and the responsibility to help others who are walking through stroke recovery. This is not a polished sermon. It is three survivors telling the truth. In this episode, we talk about: Surrendering to God after stroke Control, pride, and humility Miracles during stroke recovery How suffering can create purpose Faith that grows through brokenness Family, forgiveness, and being present Why recovery is spiritual, emotional, and physical Helping stroke survivors feel less alone Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Purpose 01:31 - Faith and Transformation 03:22 - Suffering and Growth 10:32 - Family and Relationships 16:33 - Control vs. Surrender 37:23 - Miracles and Moments 48:49 - Fundraising and Support 61:17 - Closing Thoughts and Prayer If you are a stroke survivor, caregiver, family member, or someone walking through a hard season, we pray this episode reminds you that your story is not over.
Subscribe to The Broken Road Project Podcast for more conversations about faith, recovery, hope, and life after stroke. Scripture referenced: Psalm 147:3, Matthew 25:31–40, 2 Corinthians 5:17 The Broken Road Project: Walking with stroke survivors and families through hope, healing, and purpose.
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Three men. Three strokes. One honest conversation about faith, suffering, and the question so many survivors face: “Why me?” In Part 1 of this special two-part episode of The Broken Road Project Podcast, Trent Peterson sits down with Shayne DeMarce and Oral O for a raw, faith-centered conversation about life after stroke, anger at God, identity, trauma, survival, and the search for purpose after everything changes. This episode does not offer easy answers. It offers honesty. The conversation opens with prayer and moves into some of the hardest parts of stroke recovery: the shock, the fear, the grief, the moments of hopelessness, and the wrestling with God that can happen when life is suddenly interrupted. Trent shares about his brainstem stroke on May 25, 2024, and the moment he found himself lying in a hospital bed wondering why it happened to him. Oral shares how peace came early in his recovery and how the question shifted from “why me?” to “why not me?” Shayne opens up about anger, darkness, and the long road back toward faith. This is a conversation for stroke survivors, caregivers, families, believers, and anyone who has ever walked through suffering and wondered where God was in the middle of it. In this episode, we talk about: Asking “why me?” after stroke Faith during trauma and recovery Anger at God and spiritual wrestling Stroke survival and identity loss The role of purpose after suffering Brotherhood, vulnerability, and healing Why stroke recovery is more than physical Part 2 continues next week, where the conversation moves deeper into surrender, miracles, purpose, and what faith looks like after everything has changed. Chapters 00:00
The Question of 'Why Me?' in Times of Crisis 01:38 Finding Peace and Purpose in Adversity 02:33 The Role of Faith in Recovery 04:54 Transformative Experiences and New Perspectives 08:03 The Importance of Community and Support 10:44 Reflections on Strength and Vulnerability 13:52 Concluding Thoughts and Future Aspirations 15:29 The Complexity of Christian Denominations 16:39 Unity in Diversity: Finding Common Ground 18:13 The Role of Theology in Faith 21:33 Personal Journeys Through Adversity 25:16 The Impact of Faith on Recovery 30:40 Transformative Experiences: Faith Before and After Stroke 39:43 Life Lessons Beyond Stroke: The Essence of Faith 44:44 Facing Mortality and Guilt 49:07 Gratitude and Life's Blessings 50:49 The Prodigal Son's Journey 51:52 Giving Credit 54:31 Outro Part 1 If this conversation speaks to you, subscribe to The Broken Road Project Podcast for real stories of faith, recovery, hope, and life after stroke.
Scripture referenced: Matthew 11:28–30, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Psalm 147:3
The Broken Road Project: Hope, healing, and community for stroke survivors and families.
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